RESPECT.

Respect is a word that a recent few have seemed to have forgotten the meaning of.

Respect is something that should be obvious, you get it when you show it.

It's not solely about what you show in public, it's also what you exude when behind closed doors.

It's treating others in a manner that you would accept as treatment to yourself from others... the golden rule.

It's an understanding with another individual that they have nothing to worry themselves over, at least when it comes to you.

It's not being crass and obscene when nobody is around.

It's not hiding actions when you know it will upset someone else.

Respect is being open.

Respect is being honest.

Respect should be mutual.

Clearly I'm a little bent out of shape- for reasons that I will not disclose beyond this post.

I just feel like from time to time, people need to be reminded that the actions they take have reactions, be they major or minor, and that people on the outside will always have their own opinions from their vantage point.

We all have experiences that have shaped us into the people we are today. From those experiences we determine how we will handle other experiences moving forward. These experiences will also allow you the ability to share your knowledge of the situation with someone presently experiencing what you've found.

All of this, back to respect. I will not respect you for doing something that I have a bad experience from, when you know the experience I had was not a pleasant one. I've imparted my experience to you, you knew how I reacted. You should know that I won't stand idly by when you attempt or act like you intend to do to someone else what has been done to me.

I will raise my voice, refusing to be silenced. No matter our friendship or relationship, I will do what I feel necessary to make you understand the lack or respect you're showing others and, by your actions, me.

Respect one another. Only do what you would want done. Life is too short to ruin a good thing or someones hopes and dreams.