Wednesday, February 12, 2020

Random Thoughts 1 of ?

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This week I have zero clue what to blog about. So prepare for ramble-mania, filled with my random thoughts. This post is simply a window into my present mindset... here we go:

Last week we went to see Birds of Prey and I'm obsessed with the whole thing. The music throughout the whole movie was SPOT ON. It's my number one playlist to listen to right now, every single song played in the movie was an absolute banger. But beyond the music, the storyline was amazing as well... total babes doing what they had to do in order to save themselves and their friends, following Harley's emancipation from the Joker.

Speaking of emancipation from controlling, abusive men: Ladies, stop letting yourselves get into these abusive (physical or mind games) relationships with dudes who don't actually care about you. Find solace in your friends and my GOD the world around you will become yours. The mindset that women are weaker than men needs to end. I'm well aware that the playing ground has leveled out a lot compared to years ago but we're still looked down on as the weaker gender. Just look at the news and you'll find women who are accomplishing great things, every single day. Rescue yourself, girl. You don't need a man to do it for you.

Actually, on that note: for the love of all that you find holy, STOP with the girl on girl hating. In a society that wants to keep women down, raise your sisters up! I'm talking even the little things. You don't like that girl who's posting daily/weekly workout or bikini posts? Unfollow her. She's well within her means to post whatever she wants on her page. You don't like the way your coworker is dressed, because you wouldn't wear something like that? Allow someone in charge to say something if it's inappropriate. Feel like someone is wearing too much makeup? Too little? Is it hurting you? Good grief, let her do what she wants.

Unrelated, I'm stressed. I'm hoping to do so much this year and it all seems impossible right now. I know time will tell but I just want a glimpse into the future, just to make sure I'm doing the right things. We're hoping to get a house later this year, broaching trying for a baby, maybe moving our wedding date up (my mind refuses to finalize anything) and I really want a dog. 2020 is going to be my year. I feel that much in my soul.

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